Here is the thing... Performance vehicles = very high maintenance.
Dont get the bmw, even a non-performance version of it still costs you A LOT. If you changed your mind about maintenance fees and what not, get the m3 and nothing else when it comes to a bmw but then you still will be stuck with the manual.

Get yourself a 2010 mr TOURING and call it a day. You will have all the "luxury" that an evo can offer and still have the performance AND its SST... manual when you want to, automatic when you need to