Ok, so I bought aftermarket spyder headlights with led strip/halo, from cardid. 99% of aftermarket headlights say they won't work with oem hid, for whatever reason, but these ones promised they would. However, the connection from the headlight and the one from the car doesn't fit, metal prongs are slightly too big, and I don't really want to shave them down in case I break them. Is there an easier way to splic it together?? OR is it possible to buy an aftermarket hid kit and install it in a car with factory hids?? Any input on getting these in would be great