thanks alot for sharing. appreciate the help.

okay, just for the record, all you have to do to make the fogs come on is make a SPST switch to ground the relay for the foglight(of the 4 pins,drivers side rear). then you can turn on the foglight anytime you want. what I want to do, is make it so when I click on the stock foglight switch, it will turn on or off w/ parking just for the hell of it. i'm still hoping to find a wiring diagram for the front ecu, or maybe just a JDM or UKDM front ecu to play w/.

Here is a very rough sketch of my wire harness. You'll need:

12 gauge wire
split loom
electrical tape
relay
relay socket
30A fuse
fuse holder
soldering iron
rosin core solder
spade connector to stick into parking light fuse in fuse box

Ima definitely do this when someone comes up with the diy.!!